Rob Schneider has made millions laugh with his over-the-top comedy, but his real-life relationships have followed a quieter, more complex path. Born on October 31, 1963, he found fame on Saturday Night Live in the early 1990s. During his time on the show, he earned three Primetime Emmy nominations and became a recognizable face in American comedy.
After SNL, Schneider moved into film. He starred in box office hits like Deuce Bigalow: Male Gigolo, The Animal, and The Hot Chick. Over the years, he also worked as a director, producer, and stand-up comedian.
Off-screen, he’s been married three times. His first two marriages remained mostly private. His third and current marriage to Patricia Azarcoya has been more in the public eye. The couple even created a Netflix show together, Real Rob, loosely based on their daily life.
Here’s a look at all three women who’ve been part of Rob Schneider’s personal life.
Patricia Schneider – His Current Wife Since 2011
Rob Schneider met Patricia Azarcoya Arce in 2007 when she was working as a producer on a show in Mexico. Their connection was instant, and after a few years of dating, they tied the knot in a private Beverly Hills ceremony in April 2011. Patricia, born in Mérida, Yucatán, Mexico, is a bilingual film and TV producer who later moved to the U.S. to continue her creative career.
Together, Rob and Patricia have two daughters—Miranda, born in 2012, and Madeline, born in 2016. The family lives in Arizona, a place they chose for its natural beauty and welcoming community.
Their partnership goes beyond just family life. Patricia and Rob have collaborated on multiple projects, including the Netflix sitcom Real Rob, which offers a semi-fictional glimpse into their marriage. In 2022, Patricia wrote, produced, and appeared in Daddy Daughter Trip, a film starring Rob and their daughter Miranda.
Outside of the entertainment world, Patricia shares her love for cooking on her YouTube channel Cooking With Patricia, where she posts bilingual recipes. She’s also an avid dancer, having taken up rumba and bachata and often shares her progress online.
Through the years, Rob has credited Patricia for grounding him and being his biggest support. In his words, she’s the reason he keeps going: “You make everything beautiful! Every day a joy.”
Their relationship blends humor, creativity, and family, making Patricia not just his wife, but his closest collaborator and constant companion.
London King – His First Wife and Mother of Elle King
Rob Schneider’s first marriage was to former model and actress London King. The two tied the knot in 1988 and welcomed a daughter, Tanner Elle Schneider, on July 3, 1989. The marriage was brief—they divorced the following year, leaving London to raise Elle in Ohio with her second husband, Justin Tesa, whom she married in 2000.
Elle would later adopt her mother’s last name as a stage name, intentionally creating distance from her father’s fame while carving out her own career as a musician.
While Elle grew up largely apart from Rob, their relationship has taken a turn for the better in recent years. In her youth, she rarely saw him and didn’t speak with him for long stretches, even after releasing her first EP in 2012.
But things shifted after Rob welcomed two daughters with his third wife, Patricia. Elle wanted to build a connection with her little sisters, which opened the door to rebuilding her bond with her father.
Since reconnecting, the two have grown closer. Elle now describes their relationship as loving and respectful, with “awesome boundaries.” Rob, in turn, has become one of her biggest cheerleaders. On Elle’s 34th birthday in 2023, he praised her publicly, calling her an “awesome mama” and a huge inspiration to their family.
London, meanwhile, has left the entertainment world behind and now works as a doula. When Elle gave birth to her son Lucky in 2021, it was London who guided her through the delivery. Elle later described her as the best mom she could ask for—someone who’s been there through every chapter of her life.
Helena Schneider – A Brief and Private Second Marriage
Rob Schneider’s second marriage was to Helena Schneider, a woman who chose to live far from the spotlight despite being briefly linked to Hollywood fame. The two met in 2001, began dating shortly after, and got married in 2002. Their relationship remained relatively private throughout, and unlike his other marriages, Helena and Rob never had children together.
Though they stayed married for three years, details about their time as a couple are scarce. Helena was occasionally seen accompanying Rob at events, including the 2005 premiere of Deuce Bigalow: European Gigolo. Still, she preferred to remain out of the public eye. Her personal background, including her family and education, has never been disclosed.
Their marriage quietly ended around 2005, shortly before Rob began dating his current wife, Patricia. While Helena may have gained brief media attention during her time with the comedian, she quickly returned to a life of privacy after their separation. Since then, she has kept away from public appearances and has not been active in entertainment circles.
