The Boys star, Antony Starr, has been romantically linked to several of his co-stars, thanks to the undeniable chemistry they share both on and off the screen. But as of 2026, the actor has put all the rumors to rest by going public with his relationship with Sandra Vergara. Since then, their romance has been a hot topic for fans.
The couple made their red carpet debut on May 11, 2024, at the Venice Family Clinic’s Inaugural HEART Gala in Culver City, California, and they’ve been turning heads ever since. Following their glamorous appearance, Starr and his new girlfriend Sandra have shared glimpses of their romance through social media, posting sweet moments and playful snapshots that have kept their followers hooked. They were also spotted gracing the red carpet at the 76th Emmy Awards.
But, like every Hollywood romance, it’s not all red carpets and Instagram-worthy moments. Behind the scenes, Antony has been feeling the heat from swirling rumors about his alleged misconduct, sparking fears that the actor could be facing “cancel culture” head-on. Things got even more intense when Sandra posted a critique of cancel culture, and Antony quickly backed her up, writing:
This is so true. We are in an age where “facts” are labelled alternative and truth is a secondary citizen to sensationalism and soundbites. I love what you are doing.
Of course, the comment didn’t go unnoticed. Many saw his comment as a defense against the growing allegations of bullying and inappropriate behavior on the set of The Boys, rumors that some claim contributed to Dominique McElligott’s sudden departure from the show.
And just when you thought it couldn’t get messier, some of Sandra’s followers took Antony’s comment and ran with it, labeling him as “right wing.” Not one to shy away, Sandra quickly shut down those claims, making it clear that Antony’s political views couldn’t be further from conservative. To set the record straight, Starr himself addressed the issue in an interview:
Do I have political opinions? Of course I do. But it’s not my job to voice those as a performer on the show.
With all this swirling around, he continues to maintain his focus on his acting while trying to keep his private life as drama-free as possible. But let’s be honest—despite all the noise, fans are dying to know the scoop on his romantic life.
A Timeline of Antony’s Dating Life
Starr’s love life has been the subject of speculation for years—long before he made things official with his current partner, Sandra Vergara. Fans have often linked him to several of his co-stars, and the rumors have been nothing short of juicy.
One of his earliest confirmed relationships was with costume designer Lucy McLay, whom he dated from 2008 to 2010. The former pair supposedly met in a restaurant in 2008, and sparks flew instantly. Interestingly, Lucy worked on the costume wardrobe team for Outrageous Fortune—the very show where Antony played the unforgettable Jethro West/Van West. Talk about mixing business with pleasure!
During their time together, they were also seen together at various events, including a red-carpet appearance at the Qantas New Zealand Television Awards. And while some sources incorrectly labeled Lucy as his wife (sorry, gossip rags!), Antony’s only confirmed marriage was actually with actress Emma Lahana.
But wait, there’s more! In 2015, whispers about a romance between Antony and actress Ivana Miličević had fans buzzing, though neither party ever confirmed or denied the romance.
Then came the Banshee years, from 2013 to 2016, when Starr was romantically linked to his co-star Trieste Kelly Dunn. Their steamy on-screen chemistry left fans wondering if there was more going on behind the scenes. While nothing was officially confirmed, the speculation kept the rumor mill turning.
By 2017, Starr found himself at the center of dating rumors again, this time involving his The Boys co-star Erin Moriarty. These two were spotted together more than a few times, sending fans into a frenzy. While the relationship was never officially confirmed, the whispers were loud enough to keep us all intrigued.
During the COVID-19 pandemic, the tea spilled about their relationship possibly moving beyond professional. In November 2020, Erin posted a cheerful snap on social media, giving Antony credit for the smile—a subtle hint at their bond. Then came sightings of the two vacationing together in Costa Rica and hitting up Universal Studios, reportedly on a double date. Coincidence? Hard to say.
And that wasn’t all. Antony shared a shirtless pic from what appeared to be Erin’s place, cheekily calling them “neighbors.” From playful online banter to whispers about sharing digs while filming season 3 of The Boys, their interactions kept everyone wondering what was really going on behind the scenes.
